This can be especially true if you have a child with special educational needs. Sometimes it can be hard to unpick how much your child’s needs are affecting their behaviour at school and whether that may have led to the suspension. You may also be wondering whether the type and amount of support they get is a factor too.
It can be hard to think of suspension as a positive thing. But it can be a wake-up call for those involved, telling everyone something is not right. It can be a good opportunity to look at your child’s support and needs, and how they’re managing in school. Most importantly it’s also a time to ask about, and listen to, what your child is saying about their day-to-day school life.
There are legal procedures that schools must follow when a child is suspended. This information sets out what those are and what should happen to your child before, during and after a suspension. There is also information about what to do if you your child is being suspended often and how to go about challenging the decision to suspend.
A suspension is when a child or young person is temporarily not allowed to be at school.
Suspensions used to be called fixed term exclusions, and you might still hear them called that. It’s a formal process and the school must follow certain rules for the suspension to be legal.
Suspension is used by schools as a way of managing behaviour. As such, there should be information about how it’s used in every school’s behaviour policy.
The Department for Education (DfE) guidance on suspension and exclusions says:
“A suspension may be used to provide a clear signal of what is unacceptable behaviour as part of the school’s behaviour policy and show a pupil that their current behaviour is putting them at risk of permanent exclusion”.
The DfE also states that suspension can “sometimes be necessary as a last resort”.
A child or young person can be suspended for one or more fixed periods of time, such as a day. This can go up to a maximum of 45 days in a school (academic) year. This maximum amount applies even if your child has changed school part way through the year. If your child reaches 45 days of suspension in a school year, the school cannot give any more suspensions. They can only give a permanent exclusion.
Suspensions do not have to be for a continuous period of time. They can also be for periods of time shorter than a day, so, for example, a child can be excluded for a half day. A suspension can start straight away on the day the behaviour happened, or on another school day.
For a suspension to be lawful it must be reasonable, proportionate and fair. Any decision to suspend a child should be made in an individual, case-by-case way.
These are the main things that the legal guidance says about suspensions:
You can find out more about the law and suspensions on the Child Law website, the IPSEA website or in the Department for Education guidance.
Children and young people with SEND can be suspended. However, suspensions should not be used to manage a child’s special educational needs or because their needs cannot be met in school.
Schools do have a legal duty not to discriminate against a child by suspending them from school because of their disability. You can find out more about the definition of disability on our New to SEND? web page.
Reasonable adjustments may need to be made. In other words, if a child’s behaviour is a direct result of their disability, and appropriate support wasn’t in place and given, suspending them may be discriminatory. The law that includes this duty is the Equality Act 2010. If you think that this may have happened, and want to discuss it, contact us for advice.
It’s not always the case that a child’s SEND is a factor in their behaviour. But school staff should think about whether your child’s special educational needs contributed to the breaking of the school rules. If they think that’s the case, they should consider whether it is right and lawful to suspend them.
Schools must also make sure they do not discriminate against disabled children and young people by increasing their risk of suspension more than other pupils, without a good reason.
The Department for Education Behaviour in Schools Guidance, says:
“Schools should consider whether a pupil’s SEND has contributed to the misbehaviour and if so, whether it is appropriate and lawful to sanction the pupil. In considering this, schools should refer to the Equality Act 2010 and schools’ guidance.”
“The school should also consider whether any reasonable adjustments need to be made to the sanction in response to any disability the pupil may have. It is also important for the schools to seek to try and understand the underlying causes of behaviour and whether additional support is needed.”
The following things should happen when your child is suspended.
While your child is suspended, they should still get their education. The headteacher should make sure work is set and marked for them during the first five school days of a suspension. This can include using online learning.
If your child is suspended for longer than five school days, the school must arrange suitable full-time education to start from the sixth school day of the suspension. This is for children who are between 5 and 16 years old (compulsory school age).
For children with SEND, the school’s legal duties stay in place during a suspension. That could mean giving extra or different support to help your child do the work they have been set. This is worth remembering, as children with SEND often need learning support and may find it difficult to get work done at home without it.
If your child is due to sit an exam or national test, such as a GCSE or SATs test, during the time they have been suspended, the schools governing board should consider whether to allow them into school to sit it. They can also consider whether your child could do the exam or test some other way than being in school.
Before, or at the start of, your child’s return to school there should be a reintegration meeting. This is where you, your child and one or more members of school staff get together. If you cannot be at the meeting, it shouldn’t stop your child returning to school.
The aim of the reintegration meeting is to plan how to give your child the best chance for a successful return to school. At the meeting there should also be a plan to help prevent further behaviour difficulties or suspensions. The plan should be realistic and based on what your child is able to manage.
At the heart of any reintegration plan and meeting should be a clear message to your child that this is a fresh start. That means that the professionals should say and show that your child is valued. It should also be clear that what’s happened in the past will not get in the way of them succeeding in the future. The meeting is also an opportunity to explore with your child the impact of their behaviour on themselves and others. Talking to your child about whether there was anything that could have stopped the incident from happening can be helpful too.
If you haven’t been offered a meeting, ask for one. You might also need to ask for a separate meeting to look at your child’s school plan and to talk about the support they have in school, and whether it’s right or enough.
You can find out more about reintegration meetings in our top tips information sheet.
To help your child have the best chance of going back into school successfully, school staff may put other support in place. That could include:
The headteacher can cancel any suspension that has already started or one that has not yet begun. This can only happen if the governing board hasn’t already met to talk about whether your child should be reinstated.
If the suspension is cancelled, the headteacher must tell you straightaway. You and your child should be offered the chance to meet with the headteacher to talk about the circumstances that led to the suspension.
If you disagree with the suspension, you have the right to challenge the decision.
This is called making a ‘representation’ and you must do that in writing. Information about how to do this, and who to send it to, should be in the letter from the headteacher about the suspension. The legal charity IPSEA also has some advice about what to put in the letter and how to write it.
Letters of representation are sent to the governing body for the school. What happens then depends on how many days of suspension your child has had in a term, and whether they’re about to sit a public exam or SATs test.
The governing board must decide whether to reinstate your child within 15 school days of being told about it, if:
If your child has had between 5 and 15 days of suspension in a term, what happens is slightly different. If you make representations, the governing board must decide within 50 school days whether your child should be reinstated.
You can find out more about challenging the decision to suspend your child on the IPSEA website or in the Department for Education Guidance.
If your child is getting suspended again and again, the school staff should be thinking about whether this is the right approach and whether it’s working. They should be looking at alternatives and reviewing the support your child has.
The Department for Education guidance about suspensions and exclusions says:
“Where suspensions are becoming a regular occurrence for a pupil, headteachers and schools should consider whether suspension alone is an effective sanction for the pupil and whether additional strategies need to be put in place to address behaviour.”
For children with SEND, that may mean looking at the support already in place, considering whether they need to be assessed and getting advice and support from professionals outside of school. There are other alternatives, such as off-site direction and managed moves. You can find out more about these on our webpage about being at risk of suspension or exclusion. If your child has an EHC plan, you could ask for an early review of the plan to get together with professionals and discuss and review the support your child is getting.
If you’re worried that your child is starting to struggle in school and is at risk of being permanently excluded, ask for a meeting with the SENCO. Don’t ignore it or put it off. The sooner you start conversations and work together support your child the better, and the greater your chance of preventing permanent exclusion.
Page reviewed: April 2024
Page due for review: April 2026
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